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2006 September Archive at BrianJBecker.com

Monthly Archive for September, 2006

A beautiful day in the neighborhood

Peas and Carrots

I’ve had quite a few visiting colleagues lately and it has been a blessing. I enjoy sharing hospitality and while it’s not as easy to provide everything I’d like to for visitors, I like to try my best. Thursday the last visitors went home to Kinshasa. I’m fighting round two of a cold, so I planned to stay in and rest today. It’s Saturday after all.

This morning I did just that. I read the news and some history of my home town online. I had rice with milk, sugar and cinnamon for breakfast. A friend passed by for a visit and we talked about the explosive gasses in the depths of Lake Kivu to the east. A couple of other friends called up to say hello. Then I got beeped by Jean, the head guard at the office. (Since all cell phones are prepaid here, people will often call and hang up in an effort to encourage you to call them back and therefore pay for the call.) I figured that it was either some sort of problem at the office or he was calling to tell me that the cat was hungry. For potential of the former I called back immediately to find out that it was the latter.

Since I have never seen pet food of any kind for sale in Kisangani the quick and easy solution is canned corned beef hash. The stuff is everywhere and it’s a little expensive but it does the trick. Today I went to a wholesale shop and found it by the case for about half of what I have been paying. This is a good development. Even better, I found a source for cases of canned peas. Most all vegetables are hard to find here because it never gets cold enough for them to grow and all trade from the east, where they grow very well, is by dilapidated aircraft stocked with more precious cargo (diamonds and cheese and non-perishables). What’s more, I have a particular fondness for canned peas. I know they are disgusting (and I like fresh ones better). But when I was a young child canned vegetables were most all the vegetables that I knew. My mother doesn’t eat most vegetables and I never had the diligence to water the garden consistently in those days. I thought all peas were gray-green and soft on the tongue. Later in life I have of course experienced the goodness of frozen and fresh veggies. Yet since my freshman year of college canned peas have been a special nostalgic food for me. Here they can cost an astounding $5 a can! But today I bought them by the case for fifty cents! They might be pretty horrible, but that only adds to the nostalgic charm.

It’s fun going to these sorts of wholesale depots. Each one has a very complete and secure system. When you walk in the door all of the products and most of the staff are behind fencing of some sort. There may be sacks of flour and other commodities piled around the floor of the public space. It’s usually crowded, dimly lit, and the air is warm and stale. Random products lurk in the distant shadows. Sometimes it pays to ask what something is. I got a jar of beets this way a few weeks ago (I love beets). You go to one window to place your order and another window to pay for it and then a man brings your items out and sets them on the floor. Finally another man by the door yells your name and you present yourself to get your receipt, scoop your goods up off the floor, and out the door into the gleaming sunshine you go.

Of course buying things by the case means carrying them by the case up the 127 stairs into my apartment. Still, for the savings and the sweet nostalgia of canned sweet peas… it’s well worth it.

The weather is almost perfect today. It’s hot but it’s not too humid and there’s a slight breeze that made sitting in the shade on the office porch and talking with Jean a real delight. I saw several people that I know and several others saw me and called my name out. This city of a million is starting to feel like a small town. I smiled at quite a few people and collected some toothy grins in return. There are a lot of problems in the Congo but the smile factor is one thing the place has going for it. If I smiled at random strangers in California I suspect a few would smile back and the vast majority would give me a dirty look. Here it’s the inverse. Relationships with people here are as complicated as anywhere, (neither poverty nor wealth seem to breed unity,) but the simple smile exchange is still pure and mutually beneficial.

Finally, for the first time in a long time I was out on a Saturday and did not once get pulled over by the traffic cops for even a few minutes of comic extortion. I’m not sure I am worthy of this measure of blessing! (Maybe those guys were just paid at the end of the month.)

Strong Language

Since moving so far out of the USA and American culture I have realized that there are just a couple of major topics that are universal fodder for discussion:  soccer and politics.  Now I am a sports fan and I tried to appreciate soccer during the World Cup.  But in the end I came to the conclusion that while a soccer game is fine to watch now and again, it’s a flawed sport that I can’t see putting much time and fanatic devotion to.  That leaves me with the politics.  When you are the only American in your city, there are many unique opportunities for political conversation.  I normally try to present a reasoned point of view from my Christian worldview and my desire for peace.  I try to represent my opinion faithfully and then find something else to talk about.  I am a fan of the show Car Talk because they use cars as a unifying topic and they bring many aspects of life into the conversation, seasoned with wit and irony.  Here, cars are rare.  A lot of things are scarce.  But just about everyone has opinions about this or that politician and once sparked, the conversation goes from there.

Truth be told, I am a conversationalist and I can talk about many things with many people.  In college I majored in Psychology and minored in conversation.  One of the things I do like about the political talk is that it seems that the US President’s name is butchered by most every non-American accent.  He’s Mr. Boosh.  Thinking about how funny it sounds lightens up many dour political conversations for me!

These seem to be tough political times and getting tougher.  If the Middle East isn’t burning it’s smoldering, people are hatching plans to blow themselves up, democracy is on the march but mostly marching in place, and a leader of South America’s Leftist movement called Boosh “el diablo” while standing behind that marble bulwark of a lectern in the halls of the UN.  I’m not sure what’s worse, being included in the “axis of evil” or being called “the devil”.  Either way I’m guessing that Venezuela just got added to Mr. Boosh’s personal axis list.  Lord have mercy.

Stuck in the Mud

Today I went out into Mangobo Commune to visit with Pastor Andre.  The day started with a strong thunderstorm and I knew the roads would be wet (translate: sloppy mud).  But when my friend John showed up at about 2:30 I knew that he’d made a significant effort to come into town to fetch me and I knew that Pastor Andre would be waiting to receive me.  In the last month our vehicle has been stuck in the mud a couple of times and that possibility did cross my mind as we set out.

It’s always fun driving out into Mangobo because some of the roads are little more than footpaths and the trees hang over the road and the kids wave and smile at me.  And it was fun today except for the two times that the landcruiser was stuck in the mud!  The tire treads were completly caked with clay and I was fishtailing even through mildly sloppy stretches of road.  I felt like I was driving a boat.  And then there were bicycles passing close by in the opposite direction.  Even though I was rolling slowly, it wouldn’t take much for the car to slide into a bicycle and send it’s rider into the mud or worse, under the tire.  Thank goodness that didn’t happen.

Both times we got stuck John was able to rally help from neighbors who brought out shovels to move mud and dry tree branches to put behind the tires.  I had the landcruiser in and out of four wheel drive.  I’ll tell you it’s pretty frustrating when all of your life (post 15 1/2 years old at least) you’ve been accustomed to pushing the accelerator and moving either forward or back… not sideways!  I don’t know whether or not it takes a village to raise a child, but it took a village to push that car out of the muck.  Once the area behind the wheels was sufficiently doctored, every man and boy around grabbed a piece of the car and gave it everything they had… and she took hold, rolling back onto terra firma.

The visit with Pastor Andre was a good time.  I was able to thank him for the rooster.  We talked some about church next week when Peter will be here and I’ll be giving the Bible lesson.   We talked about the history of the Church of the Nazarene here and I shared some ideas about compassionate ministry projects.  Come to think of it, it’s nice that we did not talk about politics one bit!  Pastor’s wife started a big pot of greens but unfortunately I needed to get on the road before the sun sank too low.  I told Pastor that sitting stuck in the mud at mid-afternoon is one thing and being there under darkness quite another.  He understood my logic and we prayed together to end my visit.

Visitors

I enjoyed a visit from two HOPE Intl. colleagues this week.  I was excited to share my home and office with them for a few days.  It’s nice to connect with coworkers who are based in the USA since we are working to accomplish the same mission but we don’t have many opportunities to get aquainted face to face.  This Friday another guest should arrive for the weekend and the following week there will be more guests.  When it rains, it pours!  Just about any change in my routine is a welcome oasis.  These visitors will keep me on my toes right into October and then I am planning some travel of my own.

Small blessings

This website really isn’t about gifts that I recieve. And just because the last two posts are about such things, don’t think that I’m spending a lot of time receiving gifts and writing about just a few of them. At least not in the material sense. I was given a gift Friday when a staff member came to me at the end of the day a bit nervously wanting to talk through something that upset her in our staff meeting. Her desire to discuss it and find reconciliation was a real gift. The two little tiny dudes that ran alongside the jeep on the way home from work Friday grinning and waving at me while one of them was having a hard time keeping his pants up… the view across the river right this moment in warm morning light, colors muted by a hint of unpolluted haze… finding out that I have colleagues coming for a brief visit this week… all great gifts. In some ways it wasn’t an easy week for me and yet from about 3:00 PM Friday to this moment, things have gotten better. There have been many small blessings, and one clucking gift.
Yesterday was without a doubt a small milestone in my life. Pastor Andre sent the gift of a live rooster for me. Now I’ve heard of the anxiety some feel when presented a gift in front of others, they are worried about the all-important reaction and whether it will betray their true feelings. I’d love to have seen my expression when I looked in that plastic sack and saw the rooster looking right back up at me. Before knowing the gift was poultry, I made some joke about it being a guinea pig since the pastor’s boy raises them for meat. Little did I know that it was in fact a live animal! I’m sure that my reaction expressed both surprise and gratitude. I am very thankful for the gift and I am sad that I didn’t have my camera. The rooster is now in the fridge (much less photogenic at this stage) and I’ll cook it when my guests arrive later this week. Chicken recipes anyone?

Petrus & his guinea pigs Pastor Andre